crossed the line today- not sure how i d

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Registered: 05-26-2009
crossed the line today- not sure how i d
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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 9:28pm

So today I did it. I crossed the line and had sex with my AP. I am married with 2 kids. H is great but lately not for me... Treats me with no respect and there is no sex. So today AP and I did it. It was great. I don't feel guilty about doing it, but I do feel physically ill. Like I am going to barf. Maybe my body is trying to tell me something? I want to do it again but don't want to feel like this everytime.

Anyone else feel physically ill after their encounters? What should I do?

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Registered: 03-08-2009
Wed, 06-10-2009 - 9:58pm
AP and I both felt completely nauseous after our first time.
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Registered: 04-23-2009
Thu, 06-11-2009 - 10:31am

I'm sorry you are feeling this way - I just had my first time with my AP last friday and I didn't feel sick or anything afterwards but after it "sunk in" I felt a little akward, then when I came to work Monday for some reason all I wanted was to be left alone.....I didn't want to see him, talk to him I just wanted to get through my day and go home, now I find I am very anxious to be with him again?


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Registered: 11-13-2008
Thu, 06-11-2009 - 2:21pm
Wow! i had my first time with my AP 1 1/2 years ago! It was awkward and we were nervous but the build up was so much that it had to be done.no meeting,no lunch,no dinner,not even the kisses could do what that one encounter did.It was awesome,to say the least.After the first one,it became a bit easy.we came to know what each desires.My AP's sex life was zero at home and i could see it in our sessions.It keeps getting better and better.
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Registered: 05-14-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 1:45pm
Barf ? no way but everyone is different...
msfoolishheart
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Registered: 02-22-2008
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 3:33pm

Barf ? Nahhh...never felt like that :)
It must be the excitement - or of course it could be guilt !

The only thing you should do is to decide if you want to do it again or not...

If there is a next time I bet it will be great. Try to relax and ENJOY !


Edwina
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Registered: 05-05-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 3:47pm
Sounds alot like guilt. Will you do this again?