I havent come across any one who has gone through this. Psycho men can do crazy stuff . I have no advice but for a married woman with a psycho OM can drive her insane as well ! He might do crazy stuff and she will feel the crazy stuff ! Yikes !! Ugh !! She might get psycho as well with him Ouch !!
It shouldnt happen to anyone.I hate the thought even.
If it gets out of control then maybe get police protection ! Ugh. For that to happen, she will have to tell about her A to her H .Mess is written all over.
I don't know anyone like that personally, but I have often thought that perhaps I might be able to turn into that "crazy chick" if he ever decided to break up with me. Not a very good feeling at all :smileysad:
I like to think that I would find my self respect before it was to late and came to that point though, UGH....
Never happened to me, but have had of stories like that. I also think that it is different for mean, since women are less likely to be stalker, right? Though with my last AP, somedays, I felt she was stalking me....in the sense of wanting me to call, email and chatting
" since women are less likely to be stalker, right? "
Ever heard of woman scorned ? Happens all the time . Its just that men dont come and post here as often as women do . In either case, some men can go more psycho in A like situations.
What we put our spouses thru, whether they know about the A or not, is not something I'm proud of - yet we all continue in the A......topic for another post I guess
Ouch !! If her xAP knew that your friend loved him, he shouldnt have taken this step , rather supported her and when she filed for divorce, been there for her.He ruined something what could have been.
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Never had it happen directly to me, but did sort of happen to AP (even though we didn't break up).
After we had our d-day, H went a bit nutso, and was stalking AP.
anotherseyes
This could be scary !!
I havent come across any one who has gone through this. Psycho men can do crazy stuff . I have no advice but for a married woman with a psycho OM can drive her insane as well ! He might do crazy stuff and she will feel the crazy stuff ! Yikes !! Ugh !! She might get psycho as well with him Ouch !!
It shouldnt happen to anyone.I hate the thought even.
If it gets out of control then maybe get police protection ! Ugh. For that to happen, she will have to tell about her A to her H .Mess is written all over.
Hi rayne,
I don't know anyone like that personally, but I have often thought that perhaps I might be able to turn into that "crazy chick" if he ever decided to break up with me. Not a very good feeling at all :smileysad:
I like to think that I would find my self respect before it was to late and came to that point though, UGH....
Never happened to me, but have had of stories like that. I also think that it is different for mean, since women are less likely to be stalker, right? Though with my last AP, somedays, I felt she was stalking me....in the sense of wanting me to call, email and chatting
" since women are less likely to be stalker, right? "
Ever heard of woman scorned ? Happens all the time . Its just that men dont come and post here as often as women do . In either case, some men can go more psycho in A like situations.
My childhood friend
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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What a fool that guy was / is !!
What we put our spouses thru, whether they know about the A or not, is not something I'm proud of - yet we all continue in the A......topic for another post I guess
I think that's actually pretty common Rayne.
You've got a lot of choices. I
Ouch !! If her xAP knew that your friend loved him, he shouldnt have taken this step , rather supported her and when she filed for divorce, been there for her.He ruined something what could have been.
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