I guess for me, I don't consider it any different than any other R. IS and I were in love before we met, although we had discussed sex. Once we were together, we didn't exactly break out the Kama Sutra book (lol), but it was without question the most passionate experience of my life to that point (only exceeded by the times since then). I know that she felt the same way and although sex is only a part of a R, the fact we clicked the way we did solidified some of my feelings, if that makes sense. I don't know that we are the experimenting type, although we have both done some of that in our pasts. Neither of us has any fetishes or anything. For us, it is all about pleasing one another. Luckily, we seem to like and dislike most of the same things. Neither of us is into anything degrading or painful. And although there is an element of power in some of our fantasies, it would never involve true bondage. Again, I think it totally depends on the two people involved. Each of us has our own fantasies and some people do hope to live them out. I think we seek out those who can offer us what we want and need. For some people, that is kinky sex. For me, it was true love (with a little kinky sex too :P )
I guess I'm in the emotional attachment catergory... and MM and I do tend to experiment and 'play' around... but we are not into anything outragous... not putting anyone else down... but neither of us are into golden showers... but then we probably do things that some of you may not... but again... nothing of of the ordinary.
We have discussed swingers party... and it's still in the planning... it has been for over 2 years now! there is afterall no rush.
Hi JF,
I guess I'm in the emotional attachment catergory... and MM and I do tend to experiment and 'play' around... but we are not into anything outragous... not putting anyone else down... but neither of us are into golden showers... but then we probably do things that some of you may not... but again... nothing of of the ordinary.
We have discussed swingers party... and it's still in the planning... it has been for over 2 years now! there is afterall no rush.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
Edited 4/25/2004 8:47 am ET ET by julietsfate
Edited 4/25/2004 8:48 am ET ET by julietsfate