curious...how long in EMA?
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curious...how long in EMA?
| Wed, 03-24-2004 - 10:00am |
I am just curious as to how long each of us have been involved in our EMA, and secondly, how many have been "found out" by your H/W?

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I've been with other man 3 months and I've known him for 9 months. Haven't been able to see him as much because H found out :-( And it's an ugly thing since H wants are marraige to work and be what it never has been. Good, healthy and HAPPY!
Oh, How I miss om
Neither of us has been found out by our spouse. We only communicate during work days and try to meet about 2-4 times per month and that's during the afternoons. We live in different cities but close. He comes over here to visit me at our favorite hotel. Things have worked out really well so far. I think as long as we can continue like this it will probably last for a lot longer.
Dusty
Almost 4 years for me and MM... sexual from pretty much the start... and has gotten more emotional over the years.
DH did find out about my affair 10 months into it and I had to make big decisions and big changes... but 3 years on and all is pretty good in both my marriage and EMA... and I don't think that I give DH anything to be concerned about anymore... I'm back to being his dedicated... although more assertive and secure wife.
4 years... never in a million years would I have thought... now I don't think of a life without MM.
Sweet
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It is highly unlikely MMW will find out. She lives far away and he goes home to her on weekends.
I don't know, I think I've developed the Man's feelings about A's.
Like "out of sight out of mind".
He made me go thru a long NC a while ago, and since then my feelings have changed somewhat. Some days I think why bother? Sure, I'm getting great sex when I see him but that's about all. And I have lots of toys now thanks to him. They work just as good as a man sometimes!! Sorry, just a down day.
Dusty
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