On the cusp of an affair...maybe...
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On the cusp of an affair...maybe...
| Sat, 12-20-2008 - 6:01pm |
Ok,
So I have been married for 8 years and I just started a new job where I have kind of fallen for a co-worker. Don't know if he fancies me but we went to see a film together and on our xmas meal out he touched me and it felt electric. I have just (probably unwisely and under the influence of alcohol) messsaged him in an e-mail, asking if he wants to meet up for a drink before he goes home for xmas. He is also in a relationship. Am I being too forward? What if he isn't interested? Am I being unfaithful at this stage? So many unanswered questions. Advice please!!!!
p.s - I have just got an e-mail back and he wants to meet up. This is bad but exciting. What if he just wants to be friends though?
Help.

Please don't do it. You'll live to regret it. I promise you. That's how it all started with me and my co-worker now XAP. It will end horribly..and it will take a great length of time for it to end. Plus, the stress of having to work with him will be unbearable. If I could go back in time I would have stopped his advances immediately. And you are showing an interest in him..of course it feels electric. It's forbidden..it's new and it's deadly.
Stop NOW!! I'm telling you..I've been in torment for the last two years.
I agree with Logan.
I'm with the other two on their advice to run the other way.