D-Day

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Registered: 05-03-2010
D-Day
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Thu, 07-01-2010 - 3:40pm

Maybe it doesn't count since we were already planning on getting a D anyway, but H found out about AP.


Apparently he's had his suspicions, and after he "caught" me talking to AP the other night, used his techie knowledge to start digging up stuff I had deleted.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 3:19pm

One of the things I found out last night was that he's not tracking me on the computer: it was actually a complete accident.

anotherseyes

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In reply to: anotherseyes
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 8:39pm

Oh, and I also wanted to add that I have a friend who's very computer savvy, and he helped me check my computer last night for spyware, key loggers, etc.


Turns out this was nothing more than a case of the worst kind of luck!

anotherseyes

anotherseyes

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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 2:44am

Oh mate I feel so bad for you- and H.

You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 06-27-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 6:56am

So what are you going to do?

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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: anotherseyes
Mon, 07-05-2010 - 4:18pm
Oh no!! I hate hearing about D-days, there is so much bad that can happen. Also, it makes me glad my OM is single. When two people are married, there is twice the chance to get caught! I've heard of so many cases of AP's spouses getting in touch with the other AP's spouse. And this isn't only on this board - I've heard of it in real life more than once.



It seems like your AP isn't freaking out about it and is mainly concerned with your well being which is a good thing. Keep us updated about this! Hope your H comes to terms with it all and that it doesn't impact your divorce.

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