d day

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Registered: 05-14-2009
d day
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Wed, 07-08-2009 - 10:13pm

Well, I found out why he texted me all bent out of shape at 4 am last week. The W was told that he was seeing someone and confronted him on it.


Last week he texted me at 4am, all upset. The messages ended up with confessions of feelings, although mostly on my side,

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Registered: 06-18-2009
In reply to: gal_myname
Thu, 07-09-2009 - 1:26pm
Sounds like he's asking you to hang in there and wait it out. He'll resume the A with you once the dusts settles at home. I'd be careful he's not taking you for a fool. Looks to me like this guy is an expert in the playing around field and knows how to use the smoke and mirrors to throw his W off the scent.
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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: gal_myname
Thu, 07-09-2009 - 1:53pm
Are you sure he is telling the truth about his W knowing about the A?I had a DDay but we were caught head-on ,so their was no way escaping,unfortunately.If you believe its the truth,then i guess,your AP is going to continue the A or he wouldnt have come back again.in my case,the W believes that we are done but my AP and i are going around still,just a bit more careful.I dont want to end it,simple as it is, so i do everything in my power to keep it going even if once in a while i get the crumbs( i dont like to put it that way as my AP doesnt make it feel like that.i do understand his responsibility towards his kids).
It not easy to end a M, i can see that now.I am never married but can see the struggles my MM goes thru.He is sooo torn but in the end its what it is.I can take it or leave it.I choose to take it.
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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: gal_myname
Thu, 07-09-2009 - 11:25pm

Hi.

I hope you are remembering to think about YOU during all of this.

Please remember that d-day changes everything. Even if he says he is doing this anyway, please remember that if he is talking to his wife he is not done with that relationship.

Please keep us posted.

~Shadowz
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