D-Day closure

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Registered: 06-13-2006
D-Day closure
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 4:32pm

Talked to what is now my xAp finally today.


Yes, the daughter was a huge concern to me, I'm a Mom, too. As soon as I exited his house Tuesday, I began throwing up...not for being caught but for his daughter. When she walked in she was just as in shock as I was, and staring at me. I felt so badly for her. xAP says she is ok and is already coming around. She will be fine.


xAP and his W are going to be ok. She really didn't push for info since he told her I was single, it was the first time we had gone all the way. He did not give my correct last name.

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Registered: 01-27-2008
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 5:22pm

I am so so sorry, time is a healer,.This is a fantastic place as you know with many people with words of wisdom to support you, il be thinking of you and wish you well. My heart goes out to you and i sincerely hope that one day you will look back at your special times with you AP and they will bring a smile to your face as you cherish those memories.


take care


big big Hugs


SS

"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"


"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"


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Registered: 11-28-2007
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 5:35pm

(((((GAL))))) -


Honey - I can feel your pain in every word - and I wanted to tell you how sorry I am that things turned out this way.


You pretty much knew it was over - but there is always that glimmer of hope, I guess.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 06-13-2006
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 6:24pm

Yeah, I knew it was over as soon as we were caught. I am ok with it being over. It wasn't right to begin with. I just really, really hurt right now...but my family is in tact, with no danger to them and I am lucky; it could have turned out much worse.


The biggest "pain" I feel is losing him as a friend. He was my friend way before he was my lover. That's what I am going to miss the most.