D Day for the Holidays
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| Thu, 01-01-2009 - 9:21am |
I haven't been on here posting regularly for awhile. Things in my A were good and calm and I settled into a comfortable routine.
That all ended last weekend with D Day. I can't post the details since I would be terrified of the W reading and figuring out more than she knows now. We are heartbroken and have had to go to very limited contact for now. It may be completely over, but I won't know that until we can talk again.
Just a word to all of you to be very careful with cell phones/pdas/electronic communication of any sort. It only takes a minute of a phone that is not secure or an account left signed on to have something like this happen. It was an accident, but it has been devestating.
My new year is not starting out the way I had hoped. Last year it started out with uncertainty about how he felt and where we were going...this year starts out much the same. After sharing such amazing times this year with him I cannot tell you how bad this hurts.
I truly hope that all of you have a wonderful 2009. This will most likely be my last post here as I would guess that our relationship will be over.

Hi Mom -
I'm so sorry to hear about your recent developments - and I hope that you are doing ok.
I am so sorry that you are starting your year off in such a bad way. Stay calm, take one day at a time and see how it plays out. You never know how things are going to turn out... You just never know.
I agree with the cell phone/pda/electronic communication. It scares me to read how many here use them indiscriminately. Of course I was one of them until I left my e-mail signed on one night.
Please consider posting again and letting us know how things are going. I'll send good thoughts your way.
Hugs,
Circe
sorry you are going through this...really i am...
i understand about the modern technology..my AP will text or call whenever he feels like he wants to reach out to me....and he doesn't care if W, DDs, mom, sisters whomever are around...i used to think he was trying to get caught..sometimes i still do...not sure why he would want that..i wouldn't know how hard it is to end a M because i've never been M....i tend to believe that sometimes some folks wish some things would happen so they could just be done and over with something they don't want anymore...you know what i mean..sort of as to avoid having to make the decision themselves....whew....that was a mouthful...
anyhow...here's A (((hug))) FOR YOU....maybe it will get better for you in one way or the other....
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
Quick Update:
First of all thanks for the well wishes. I have been hanging in there by a thread since this cropped up. Some other things not A related have been happening so I just feel completed kicked around from every direction