Look and see what it is he will see if he gets into the account. If there are many calls, txts, pics and things at odd hours of the day/night there may be no good way to explain it.
If you look at it and the dates and time line up with any work that you might do and you could explain it like that, it might work. The "job" is over so the calls stopped...just an idea.
If your xAP's phone provider allows a free number change...today might be a good time to do that...Before your H gets the number and calls it. Try to keep him out of the account until you can get your thoughts together and warn xAP.
Hang in there and try to stay calm. Keep us posted.
Ugh. That doesn't sound good. At this point, if he's suspicious and he gets his hands on your phone bill there's probably not much you can do but fess up. I'm assuming from your post that the phone bill would be damaging????
Is your phone bill paperless? Is your husband computer savvy? I have AT&T. The acct. is in my name, paperless AND passcode protected. Meaning not only do you need the screen-name and pin, you also need a "passcode". If possible, call up and get this done immediately. Not sure if other companies offer this extra layer of security protection. You can probably pull this off if you have kids (teens) so that they can't get in and change options. That's the excuse I use, anyway.
First of all....deep breath.
Look and see what it is he will see if he gets into the account. If there are many calls, txts, pics and things at odd hours of the day/night there may be no good way to explain it.
If you look at it and the dates and time line up with any work that you might do and you could explain it like that, it might work. The "job" is over so the calls stopped...just an idea.
If your xAP's phone provider allows a free number change...today might be a good time to do that...Before your H gets the number and calls it. Try to keep him out of the account until you can get your thoughts together and warn xAP.
Hang in there and try to stay calm. Keep us posted.
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Ugh. That doesn't sound good.
At this point, if he's suspicious and he gets his hands on your phone bill there's probably not much you can do but fess up. I'm assuming from your post that the phone bill would be damaging????
Is your phone bill paperless? Is your husband computer savvy? I have AT&T. The acct. is in my name, paperless AND passcode protected. Meaning not only do you need the screen-name and pin, you also need a "passcode". If possible, call up and get this done immediately. Not sure if other companies offer this extra layer of security protection. You can probably pull this off if you have kids (teens) so that they can't get in and change options. That's the excuse I use, anyway.
Jeeze, good luck.
Yes...I looked at the account and although you kind of have to dig, you can definitely get to all the call and text details.