Dangit - why do I do this??

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Dangit - why do I do this??
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Wed, 02-25-2004 - 4:23pm
OM and I were at lunch today and it seems like all I did was complain about H. We had a big fight last night and I told him all about it but then I started telling him other stuff that happened years ago - who cares!! He is so nice and so responsive, I just wonder why I can't talk about happy stuff with him?? This isn't the first time I've done this. My M is not horrible but I think I make it sound like it is....

Anyway, I told him to give me a *smack* next time I start talking about depressing stuff...he agreed. LOL

He was extra sweet today so I'm on a high...

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 02-27-2004 - 10:24am
ok - we're going to lunch again today - H and I had a HUGE blow out last night and we both said some horrible things and now he's not talking to me - so someone PLEASE tell me not to dwell on this with OM today - this is the last time I get to spend time with him until monday and I don't want to screw it up or make it unhappy.

*sigh*

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Fri, 02-27-2004 - 11:17am
Well, looks like you are going to get a "smack" from him today. LOL Cheer up!!
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 02-27-2004 - 2:17pm
I kept my H fight talk to a minimum - I told him that we fought and that was about it - it was towards the end of lunch and I told him he was supposed to smack me so he bonked me on the head with a paper towel roll (nicely and playful of course) - we were at one of those bbq places that has paper towels on the table - then we laughed - he could tell I was a little upset though

and on another topic: I've mentioned here before that he won't say anything nice to me (about me) because it's not his "style because we're not a couple" - well we were smoochin' in the car after lunch and he said "you look cute today" - I almost melted.....*sigh*

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Fri, 02-27-2004 - 2:50pm
hey ts -- see, a little self-control goes a long way with men!

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Fri, 02-27-2004 - 2:52pm
Isn't it funny how the smallest compliment means so much? It's the same way with the R my MM and I have. He's very affectionate...touchy-feely, but words don't always flow that freely. I'm working with him on that. As for "bonking" you with something....the one person I've confided in about my MM, well, she tells me she owes me lots of "slaps" because sometimes I tend to stress when I don't hear from him, etc. So, I know what you mean!