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The day after
| Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:25am |
Hi, ladies and guys - what usually happens the day after you see ap and have ic? I am not sure what to expect as this will be new to me. will there still be contact, but not as much or do they usually disapear for a while?

I think it is different for different relationships.
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
We've had and EA for 3 months before it became PA...for the first time we had an IC it was wonderful, so romantic...we had bottle of French champagne, nice music, take out dinner over my house, everything went wonderful...right before sex he asked me, if I am sure I want it as much as he wants it, because he does not want me to have any regrets later...and I told him I love him and give myself to him...
And after he left, he had a 40 minutes drive home, and he did not even call me or texted me, and I was totally crushed about it and even cried...I got a text from him at 6 am next morning - "Have I told you lately how much I love you"...but I was so upset, how can you drive home for 40 minutes after being intimate for the first time, and do not think to call me?
So next time we met I told him how upset I was, and he's being good so far, calling after he leaves, thanking me for a good time, saying he loves me and wishing good night.
Tell him it's important for you. If he loves you, he will listen.