The day after

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
The day after
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Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:25am

Hi, ladies and guys - what usually happens the day after you see ap and have ic? I am not sure what to expect as this will be new to me. will there still be contact, but not as much or do they usually disapear for a while?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:44am
From my past experience we talked the day after and made plans for our next meeting. Neither of us could wait to talk or see each other again.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:45am

I think it is different for different relationships.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 11:49am
I guess it depends on your AP.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 3:36pm
we usually do it again because it was so good....lol..or we talk and text for hours a day..i know i know i should be working but i can Multitask i tell ya
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 5:33pm
well it was great but the day after has been different than I had hoped. contact has been less than i think i need, but I am just waiting to see if things continue to be good.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 8:53pm
i'm sure it will all be okay
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 11:53pm

We've had and EA for 3 months before it became PA...for the first time we had an IC it was wonderful, so romantic...we had bottle of French champagne, nice music, take out dinner over my house, everything went wonderful...right before sex he asked me, if I am sure I want it as much as he wants it, because he does not want me to have any regrets later...and I told him I love him and give myself to him...
And after he left, he had a 40 minutes drive home, and he did not even call me or texted me, and I was totally crushed about it and even cried...I got a text from him at 6 am next morning - "Have I told you lately how much I love you"...but I was so upset, how can you drive home for 40 minutes after being intimate for the first time, and do not think to call me?
So next time we met I told him how upset I was, and he's being good so far, calling after he leaves, thanking me for a good time, saying he loves me and wishing good night.
Tell him it's important for you. If he loves you, he will listen.