The Day After Syndrome?
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The Day After Syndrome?
| Sat, 11-08-2003 - 12:31pm |
How many experience this? A great evening with MM leaves you feeling great. You wake up the next day and can't get a hold of him because he's with his wife. Then the terrible feelings start... anger, guilt and the question, "Why am I involved with a MM?" I finally told him that if we see each other, he's GOT to call me the next day. The earlier in the day, the better. Am I just too sensitive or does everyone go through these feelings?

I have been going through that for years with my MM,,,,, as much as he knows
how much the next day call means to me... it never happens even after 5yrs
he'll say, I'll at the end of the week...... then sometimes go into a funk and
not call at all.... this is always a problem and drives me nuts.
I don't like it and I get very jealous and very sad at the same time. Bottom line it sucks!
Hang in there!
Hugs
RH
Hi sum1,
I have definitely been there... I'd be on a high when MM would walk out my door... only to not hear from him until later the next day or even the day after.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
and just because he doesn't call you the next day doesn't mean he doesn't care for you. and if that's been his practice all along, why are you upset now? revel in the feelings from your "the great evening" and relax about your MM. however, since you've told him how you feel about the NC after being together, let's see if he follows through.
take care,
gurl
The feelings are all part of the deal though.... it's just another sideline to being involved in a relationship such as these...
Love n hugs,
Hesmyhottie