Day time friends and Night time lovers

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Registered: 11-18-2012
Day time friends and Night time lovers
Sun, 12-16-2012 - 1:34am

I don't know what to do. I've recently met someone. He's very involved in his community as I am in mine. FH is a very sweet man but I'm afraid to get to close to him for fear of getting hurt. I know that he would never intentionally hurt me but this happen. I could not stand another heartbreak. My H doesn't know about FH and I plan on keeping it that way. I have no plans to leave. We've had some problems lately but nothing that we can't work out. I know you are wondering then why another man. Because I need two have both of them. One for security, and one for the exciting, passionate, hot sex. (Which we haven't had yet) We've spent a lot of time getting to know each other, becoming friends. I don't really want to be with anyone else, but feel if I don't at least keep looking for a FWB that I'm going to fall head over heels for FH. That just scares me really badly. I miss him and think about him constantly when we aren't together.