Dday for AP n he gets cash n prizes!
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Dday for AP n he gets cash n prizes!
| Tue, 04-13-2010 - 8:42pm |
My ap had a d day a while back. of course he started getting distant right away, his wife however started showering him with all kinds of expensive gifts, trips and such.
WTF? Does this make sense to anyone?

I haven't heard of that being common with a D-day, but who knows what his wife is thinking? Maybe that the gifts etc. will show him how much she cares? The trips could be for the two of them to get away and start fresh? Everyone handles a discovery differently. In their heads they might know what they're trying to accomplish but we can't really second guess anyone.
How are YOU doing with everything Libby? Are you OK?
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I suspect when found out, he made the A her fault: "You never pay attention to me, I felt so unloved and unhappy, of course I had to stray." She may believe this and is trying to show him otherwise.
Just a guess..
I don't think she's rewarding him... I know it might appear that way, but I think it's more that she's trying to prove to him that SHE loves him. When men do wrong, what do they usually do? They buy flowers, cards, jewelry, etc. Perhaps she thinks he'll stay with her if she does all these extras things for him?