Dealing with Vacations Im miserable

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Registered: 03-28-2006
Dealing with Vacations Im miserable
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Sat, 07-17-2010 - 7:11am

Good Morning Everyone! I havent posted here for a long time but found my way back today. Im hoping you can offer me some anwsers or advice.


How do you deal with AP away on vacation?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Sat, 07-17-2010 - 12:12pm

Well as you have been doing this for five years, I probably don't have anything to say that you don't already know!

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Registered: 08-30-2009
Sun, 07-18-2010 - 2:24am
Hi ladydeb I have to say I agree with Josie find something to keep you busy. I am also having a long weekend alone, H is gone for the week, and AP NEVER calls on the weekends. Heck he never calls when I would like him to. When he went on vacation over spring break with his sons he said he was going to call me..yeah right! I did not believe him and I was right, he did NOT call. I never asked him why he did not call, I am kinda embarrassed to do so. I think the problem with us is that we think too much about them, whereas they get engrossed on one thing and cannot think of anything else--out of sight, out of mind with them! From reading this boards I have noticed a trend, men do not worry too much about returning emails, texts, or phone calls within a reasonable amount of time, and that leaves many of us making up our own stories in our heads. Sad but true.
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Registered: 02-06-2010
Sun, 07-18-2010 - 4:08am
u must get out in to the community and keep yourself busy busy busy. go to a book store. go walk in the park - get a pet. your energies have got to be put into something else positive and productive so u have your own time to be thankful for, to appreciate, and u do not ruminate over him and cause yourself grief. get living!
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal