Torpedoing is not to be tolerated! There is some reason he is doing this action. This sounds like passive-aggressive behavior. He may have issues he is not facing. For you, get out while you can!! As far as your "friend" is concerned enjoy with a big block of salt!! Understand much of this is his issues that we don't have a clue as to what they are. I saw this behavior in my parents. Life is too short to waste.
He NEVER used to be like this towards me. In fact we were inseperable. But Id say the past 5 years have been intolerable for me. And even though yes I do sleep with him(very rarely)I dont enjoy it. I think because I feel used. And the fact hes getting moody because hes not getting it annoys me.. my way out of that is.Stop inviting your family to stay.
My BS freind for me isnt a way out of this.He will be just a fling. I know he wouldnt want it to be a full blown thing.Because of our freindship.Which I dont want to loose. But I just want him so so badly its driving me insane. And he such a tease. Im thinking of ways I can be near him constantly. Even if it isnt sexual.Just a hug. I am literally going mad here
It looks as though hes letting his son and girlfreind stay here again, next weekend. The only weekend he has off a month. I asked him twice to please just say nicely to his son can he stay elsewhere like his mothers for instance. But as his son left today he said I'll be back next week.
I cant take much more of this... Hes being so selfish. This is the first time ive wanted to look elsewhere for attention. Im surprised Ive not done it before the crap Ive gone through with this family.
IMO having sex with a male who is bi greatly increases the chances that you will pick up a serious std which you will probably give to your H. What you need to do is take care of your M problems first and foremost. Have a Come to Jesus talk with your H and if you cannot reach resolution of your problem then D........then get on with your life with dignity. Think long and hard about where you are headed.
I echo the last poster. I would be VERY careful about getting sexual with this man. There's no way to be absolutely certain that he practices safe sex with other men. Just because he might tell you that he does doesn't make it so. I would just be real careful.
The physical side of things would be a long time coming if at all. There is alot of flirting via text and internet. And alot of inuendos. And we just bounce off each other. I am fully aware of the danger side of sleeping with him as regards to std's. And to be perfectly honest. Weve not actually said RIGHT COME ON LETS GET TO IT. Its not got that far.
Hi I read your missives and must say that there is another dynamic going on. His passive aggressive behavior is getting to you. But i need a bit of clarification as many people are not from the western culture. Where is he from? The reason is that there are vast differences. A person who is from one culture may not truly communicate because the definitions of the same word are different emotionally.
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Torpedoing is not to be tolerated! There is some reason he is doing this action. This sounds like passive-aggressive behavior. He may have issues he is not facing. For you, get out while you can!!
As far as your "friend" is concerned enjoy with a big block of salt!!
Understand much of this is his issues that we don't have a clue as to what they are. I saw this behavior in my parents. Life is too short to waste.
He NEVER used to be like this towards me. In fact we were inseperable. But Id say the past 5 years have been intolerable for me. And even though yes I do sleep with him(very rarely)I dont enjoy it. I think because I feel used. And the fact hes getting moody because hes not getting it annoys me.. my way out of that is.Stop inviting your family to stay.
My BS freind for me isnt a way out of this.He will be just a fling. I know he wouldnt want it to be a full blown thing.Because of our freindship.Which I dont want to loose. But I just want him so so badly its driving me insane. And he such a tease. Im thinking of ways I can be near him constantly. Even if it isnt sexual.Just a hug. I am literally going mad here
It looks as though hes letting his son and girlfreind stay here again, next weekend. The only weekend he has off a month. I asked him twice to please just say nicely to his son can he stay elsewhere like his mothers for instance. But as his son left today he said I'll be back next week.
I cant take much more of this... Hes being so selfish. This is the first time ive wanted to look elsewhere for attention. Im surprised Ive not done it before the crap Ive gone through with this family.
Hes English as am I. No culture differences there. Are we talking dh or friend??
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