definition of a player/womaniser and s..

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Registered: 08-27-2005
definition of a player/womaniser and s..
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Sun, 01-03-2010 - 12:34am

What would you say is the definition of a player/womaniser and the definition of a serial cheater? are they the same or are they different?

we could argue that a player is a man/woman who is not serious about any one relationship. they will be in a primary relationship and have many different women/ men all at the same time. of course players can be married men or men in a relationship. or do we say that a player is a man/woman who has had one emr after another? but isn't that the definition of a serial cheater?

Players/womanisers usually have multiple affairs. it's not like they have one other woman with their wife, they have multiple other o.w. i had a friend/schoolmate who was involved with a mm like that. she was not the only other woman. there were many other, other women and a mutual friend of ours spent sometime with another friend. and guess what. the mm came to that person's house to visit her. our mutual friend was shocked. another mutual friend also claimed she saw him elsewhere with someone else. she thought it was our friend, but it was someone else.

so what do you think are the definitions and are they one and the same?

k2002
k2002
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Registered: 10-05-2009
Sun, 01-03-2010 - 5:20am
I think of a player/womanizer as someone who is single and really playing everyone he can. I think of a serial cheater someone who is in a committed relationship, married or just long term, that has multiple ow either all at once or one after the other in a fairly steady stream.
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Registered: 08-27-2005
Mon, 01-04-2010 - 9:48pm

"I think of a serial cheater someone who is in a committed relationship, married or just long term, that has multiple ow either all at once or one after the other in a fairly steady stream."

you are absolutely right. i think that's it.

k2002
k2002