MM who are happy and content at home usually just want a fling on the side to stroke their ego. If they are truly not happy they will leave with or without an AP.
>>>""I'm going to try to reconcile with my partner (wife) and see where it goes. We really do have a lot in common when we're not arguing and fighting"."<<<
His telling you that is his way of letting you know that he is not leaving her and if you accept what he has in mind for you, then you'll be just a booty call. MM who are just looking for flings will throw you under the bus the minute there's a chance of a D-day, so be very careful you're not throwing away your life for someone who won't be there for you.
My advice to you is assess what you really want from your life. But I would also caution you, that you'll only find happiness within. So, self introspection is a must. Don't make any decision to change your life in hope that you'll end up with your AP. Take him out of the equation, your happiness is on you and not on anyone else's shoulder.
It's NOT fair to your H that you're just in the M for the kids sake and financial reason. He needs someone who really wants to be there and feels passion for him. So, you're not doing him any favor by staying, if you really don't want to be there. Our children are smarter than what we give them credit for. They know more than you think and yes, they're probably blaming themselves for you funk.
Good luck to you in this turning point of your life.
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MM who are happy and content at home usually just want a fling on the side to stroke their ego. If they are truly not happy they will leave with or without an AP.
>>>""I'm going to try to reconcile with my partner (wife) and see where it goes. We really do have a lot in common when we're not arguing and fighting"."<<<
His telling you that is his way of letting you know that he is not leaving her and if you accept what he has in mind for you, then you'll be just a booty call. MM who are just looking for flings will throw you under the bus the minute there's a chance of a D-day, so be very careful you're not throwing away your life for someone who won't be there for you.
My advice to you is assess what you really want from your life. But I would also caution you, that you'll only find happiness within. So, self introspection is a must. Don't make any decision to change your life in hope that you'll end up with your AP. Take him out of the equation, your happiness is on you and not on anyone else's shoulder.
It's NOT fair to your H that you're just in the M for the kids sake and financial reason. He needs someone who really wants to be there and feels passion for him. So, you're not doing him any favor by staying, if you really don't want to be there. Our children are smarter than what we give them credit for. They know more than you think and yes, they're probably blaming themselves for you funk.
Good luck to you in this turning point of your life.
Thanks for the words of wisdom.
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