In Desperate Need of Advice Please
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In Desperate Need of Advice Please
| Fri, 09-18-2009 - 8:38pm |
Hello! I have written a couple of times on this board, but mostly just read everyone's post.
| Fri, 09-18-2009 - 8:38pm |
Hello! I have written a couple of times on this board, but mostly just read everyone's post.
He's a cake eater, you are a cake eater.... I think it's time for you to move on. He does not love you with all his heart, not even close. and I know that's the part that hurts. If you are gonna be fair, get out of your marriage. Don't leave your h for him, just leave him because you don't love your h any more, do it for yourself, but get out of your marriage. Let him figure out what to do in his own marriage. He is never leaving his wife, not for you, not for anyone else. And that letter would make me wonder if he's seeing someone else, too.
You are addicted to him, and it's time to break out of your addiction. It's hurting you a lot.
IMO - he won't leave his wife for you, not now and not ever. This is made obvious by the fact that he knows already that you'd leave your H for him in a second, and still he chooses not to be with you after knowing that you'd do this for him.
You need to take a sober look at the situation and decide whether you want to continue with this A, knowing that's all it'll ever be, until one of you leaves or until you are discovered in which case it sounds like he won't stick around.
Choice is yours!
Sunshine
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I think you know better you are just not willing to be real with yourself. Do you really think this man is going to leave his W for you after he is doing everything, kissing his W butt trying to make up to her. I also wouldn't believe that he loves you with all his heart. He loves the fact that he has a woman on a string to do anything he wants for him sexually with no strings attached; and he can go home to his W and play the good H role. Simply, you are being played and he will tell you anything to keep getting good S from you and his W.
That is exactly what they do.
Jenimall -
thanks for that!! I could NOT see myself with him I mean really with him....I have none him for a long time now & been with him for 2 years.