Did anyone end up with their MM?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2003
Did anyone end up with their MM?
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Mon, 11-10-2003 - 11:08am
I met first my MM at a bar almost 2 years ago. We messed around that night, he got my number through a mutual friend, and contacted me within 2 days. We hung out here and there, and eventually fell for each other. He says his M was done before we even met, because had he been happy and committed, he wouldn't have been out that late and wouldn't have pursued me as he did.

Well, here it is almost 2 years later, and we are moving in together at the end of the month. His final divorce papers are in the mail as I type, and things couldn't be better (other than his constant child custody battles).

My question is, has anyone been in this type of situation where you "get" the MM in the end? Good outcomes? Bad? Please advise!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2003
Sun, 11-16-2003 - 1:58pm
My then married mom (of 30 yrs) ended up with her MM and they married and stayed married (12 yrs) til he got killed in an accident. He was a MM w/ 2 small kids and married my mom once their D's were final. BTW, my mom has 9 kids, and when the A first started there were 5 of us still at home. When they married there was 4 of us. He was 16 yrs younger than my mom.

My ema stats: MM is 16.5 yrs younger than me, has two small kids. No, (thank heavens) I don't have 9 kids, not even 5. Have 3 (grown).

I'm not looking for a future w/ MM as a mate, but we know we'll always be in eachother's lives forever.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2003
Sun, 11-16-2003 - 8:00pm
I have been happily married to my MM for 15 years now. Still feel guilty, but have to say I'd do it all over again.

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