Did you actively choose your A?
Find a Conversation
| Thu, 08-19-2010 - 5:01pm |
I am just curious as to how many of us here are in an A by actively seeking it out. I know that I am probably in the minority, but there has got to more than me...I hope:-)
So...my first A...10 months now...I consider it an EA now because we haven't seen each other since January and that was the only time since we met...was a complete accident. Well...not an accident, LOL, of course I made the decision to pursue things...but it was something that I was not out looking for. It happened on a business trip and one thing led to another.
Following that I realized that my M was lacking something...still figuring out what...and I realized that I liked the feelings that having someone new in my life brought out in me. So..I actively sought out the next A. I joined AM...and jumped right in to affairland with my eyes wide open!
So...anyone else?

Pages
Hi Lou,
Wow.. lots of interesting stories. I almost feel better about my situation :-)
Both AP and I decided to seek an A, and found each other through AM.
well her question was " did you actively choose your A ?" So weather it is your first time or nth time , you have to actively make a choice to pursue your A .
best of luck
Pages