different scenario here

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Registered: 01-23-2009
different scenario here
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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 10:55pm

hi girls,


i'm the other women..... what an opening huh? well i'm not here to cast stones but here on the flip side thinking perhaps my dh is having a fling.

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Sat, 01-24-2009 - 12:19am

If your H is the one fooling around (having an A) then you're NOT the "other woman". You would be the BS (betrayed spouse) and if you think your H is cheating, well then, maybe you to need to do some detective work. Usually when there's smoke there's fire.

>>>"how do you hide it? i mean do you really hide the fact for fear of being found out or secretely hope your found out..."<<<

Most women who strays, usually have already given up on their M and may not really care if they're found out. Most men on the other hand usually just want some cake on the side, therefore, would do everything in their power to hide it.



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Sat, 01-24-2009 - 4:48am

I agree w/ G2. Most woman will not cheat as long as there is an emotional bond w/ their H. I just use this example to a dear friend the other day. I said "A man could get into an accident, and be paralyzed never being able to have sex again. But if he maintains that emotion bond, he can feel fairly confident that she won't stray."

Men, on the other hand (this is where it really pays to be in an all male occupation) can have a very happy M, and his W could cook, clean, work 40 hrs. a week, and be a freak for her man, but if the opportunity to cheat presents it's self, he most likely will take it.

Don't get me wrong. There are exceptions to every rule, but the above statement is true for most. I hope that your H is not running around on you. I know how it feels to have somebody play w/ your feelings, and it's not fun. Good luck.

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