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Disappinted No More
| Mon, 07-26-2010 - 2:20pm |
Just a little update to my disappointed post from late last week. MM and I were supposed to do lunch on Thursday but it got canceled last minute due to a work related thing that came up with him. He came by to tell me in person, but I was disappointed. He did contact me later that afternoon by email and told me he would talk to me the next morning. I was glad he had emailed me, which indicated to me that he cared that he was not able to make the lunch and had to cancel last minute. The next morning he emailed me and we ended up getting breakfast which was nice and we spent about an hour and a half together, just talking, before I had to go. I was leaving on a wknd camping trip. He apologized again and filled me in on what had happened and it was nice to have the time with him and it got a little flirty and was fun. I felt good that he made the effort to connect with me. Just wanted to share.

As for "The good news is that if this ever does turn into a PA, you can definitely say he didn't jump right into it for the sex." That has me thinking that if this takes too long to move forward, it might just fizzle out and we may just stay friends. Or we will become very good friends and it will be difficult for one or the other of us to keep it a light, fun A because too many emotions will be involved.
I feel as though he is coming around albeit SLOWLY and soon we won't have the luxury of seeing each other every day and we'll have to make an effort to set up "dates." He'll either want to invest in that or he won't. Him knowing how I feel about him, I don't think he would really invest much if he wasn't interested in more than friendship with me. I mean I am a nice person/good friend :), but the reality is he has lots of friends and I don't think he would make the effort with me unless he wanted this to move forward.
Also, I have realized that I probably wouldn't be able to just keep it a PA-I mean I want some sort of emotional connection, so in some ways it is nice that he isn't just wanting it to get physical. I genuinely like him as a person as well which should make things even more fun and comfortable if they do move forward.
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