divorce, AP, what do you do.
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divorce, AP, what do you do.
| Tue, 04-21-2009 - 4:20pm |
i guess the word came up again for my AP. he was talking to me over the weekend about it, then mentioned it again today. it's not him, but his spouse. i guess she's trying to push it. i just listen, but asked for the reasons today. when he told me, i kind of started yelling into the phone. the reasons are ridiculous. i want to help him some how. i'm not sure what i can do for him. his concern is for his kids and what this would do to them. i try to say to him things to try to make his marriage work. i told him how sad it is if his marriage falls apart. it's so sad if this where to come to be. i asked him if he was still going to marriage counseling. he told me he is going to try to go back. i want to see him save his marriage for those kids.

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Staying in a bad marriage is not necessarily the best thing for children.
JMO.
If you want to help him save his marriage, then stop being his AP.
Spot on - having an AP in the picture is distracting him from giving 100% to his marriage.
trixie xo
Totally agree with Shadowz here - if the marriage is bad - it is NOT best for the children to stay in it.
Hi Tgr!
Tori, I agree with the other posters as well. If you really wanted to save his marriage you would let him alone to do it. That said, if he really wanted to leave he would. Men divorce all the time. He isn't incapacitated. It isn't a can't it is a won't.
Autumn... I think you can only do so much when it
Well, regardless of the reasons, if the W doesn't want to stay married then it is going to be quite tough for them to stay married.
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