divorce, AP, what do you do.
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divorce, AP, what do you do.
| Tue, 04-21-2009 - 4:20pm |
i guess the word came up again for my AP. he was talking to me over the weekend about it, then mentioned it again today. it's not him, but his spouse. i guess she's trying to push it. i just listen, but asked for the reasons today. when he told me, i kind of started yelling into the phone. the reasons are ridiculous. i want to help him some how. i'm not sure what i can do for him. his concern is for his kids and what this would do to them. i try to say to him things to try to make his marriage work. i told him how sad it is if his marriage falls apart. it's so sad if this where to come to be. i asked him if he was still going to marriage counseling. he told me he is going to try to go back. i want to see him save his marriage for those kids.

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Just to fill you in a little on some of the back story.
Hi Tori,
I totally agree with memorysong.
Thanks!
"men are not like women, they don't think about their AP, very rarely do they."
Tori, you complain a lot about people "generalizing", so why would you make such a statement?
I agree with obxbell. Tori that was a huge generalization.
You know, I have male friends that tell me just the opposite is true, so I have to say while it might be true for your OM, it isn't for all men.
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