Do babies change things?

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Registered: 09-21-2006
Do babies change things?
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Fri, 04-02-2010 - 11:19am

MY AP and I are both married and have been in an affair for

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 11:32am
My AP already had 2 kids when we got involved ,so I knew the deal.They are not having sex,I am sure of that so no chance of having another baby.BUT if I found out he was having a baby,it would be end of it as what all he told he boils down to be a lie.
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Registered: 03-30-2010
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 11:36am

Hi Amicrazy,


My AP doesn't have children but he would like one some day and I aready have children & don't want or plan for anymore. My point in saying that is that as deeply as I feel for him although I wont be able to give him a child it would hurt me deeply if he were expecting one. Yes I know it's selfish and I'll be the 1st to admit that but I would also understand, step aside and let him continue his life and wish him much love & happiness in the process. We are only human and our feelings are involved so of course we are going to feel hurt and feel a certain type of way about it. Especially if your AP is sharing something you want to share with

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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