Do I tell him?
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Do I tell him?
| Wed, 03-31-2004 - 5:27pm |
I have been looking around for an apartment for the couple of weeks. I know my om will be happy if I tell him that, in fact things have been rough between us over my decision to leave and all that. He wants me to leave asap, but doesn't push me into a decision or anything. He knows I should leave if I want to do so. However, I don't want to give him high hopes with my apartment search. I should be able to follow it all the way through, since I am so unsure about all this. What do you all think? Should I let him know? I don't want to lead him to something and dash his hopes if I don;t follow thru...
*sigh*

"See, how she leans her cheek upon her hand! O that I were a glove upon that hand, that I might touch that cheek!".
(sorry, I was a literature major, and Shakespeare my favorite.)
now, on to serious things.
about telling the OM of your search...
nope. don't. can't. shouldn't. will likely be sorry if you do.
A few months ago I told my OW I was moving out. I meant it. And she was very excited. It didn't happen as I planned. Hey, I signed a lease on Monday... it's Wednesday at midnight, I've moved exactly two boxes so far. This is not as fast a track as I expected, and I fear it's not going to get any quicker.
Save yourself the tension and keep your sanity; don't promise nobody nuthin' until you have it in your hand to give them.
My two cents.
rain
Good luck