Do I want more?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Do I want more?
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Mon, 11-23-2009 - 9:38am

So AP did not call me on my b-day, infact I think he forgot.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2009
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 11:32am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 4:44pm
Thanks, I know the answer I was just hoping someone would tell me something different.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 10:42pm

From a guy's perspective.. well.. you know all the answers actually.. I've been reading your posts for a while. I think he is using you for entertainment, and you are using him for distraction.. actually, if you accept that worrying about your situation with him keeps you from losing your mind with worrying about your own situation, then it's not a bad deal, not ideal, but at least everyone gets what they want..

One point here though.. no one makes anyone else do anything, other than a gun point situation.. you are responsible for how you feel, how you act, how you cope.. you are making all the choices..

I think you'll have an easier time of this if you see that he's also helping create a diversion for you, though that's not his motive really.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2009
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 2:39pm

ITA.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 5:25pm

I think you are all right... scatch that.. I know you are all right.