Do Only People In Bad Marraiges Enter As
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Do Only People In Bad Marraiges Enter As
| Thu, 08-05-2010 - 4:39pm |
Just curious about this. I mean most of us enter into As because our marriages are lacking something right? Can people that are happy in their marriages also have As? I mean my MM says he is happy/content in his marriage and if that is so why is he engaging in an EA with me?

I read a study that said it's more common with men to enter an A when they are perfectly happy with their wives and their marriages, simply because they can. In other words, because an attractive woman has presented herself as interested, so they "can". Women are less apt to do so, but some of them can do it also.
This isn't every man or woman - just some - who could do so. But a larger percent of men than women are in that category.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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I have a good marriage. My H is a loving, caring, kind, and hardworking man. But I am having an A. I don't think I'm in A because of my marriage, I am in it because of me. Somehow I got emotionally attached to my AP, then it became physical
I think a lot of women are in their marriage just because of finances or they have nowhere to go & not because of their partner hence they end up having affairs because it is easier than leaving their marriage . Staying in a marriage for other reasons can never be right for anyone .
No I don't think only people in bad marriages enter affairs. Overall I think I have a great H & a good marriage
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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AP and I are both in unhappy M's, but I can tell you what my therapist said about this very topic.
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