Do these things ever work out??
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Do these things ever work out??
| Fri, 09-19-2003 - 3:37pm |
I was just wondering... do these things ever work out in our favor??? Do they ever leave?? If anyone knows of a situation where the MM left his W for the girlfriend please let me know. I just want to know if it has always been the sterotyped "he still hasn't left yet" kind of thing. I would like to know if it ever has worked that way. Thank you very much and I appreciate your help.

I'd like to throw in my 2 cents here... In my case, I am a single 23 yr old girl dating a Jewish MM 12 yrs my senior. I do not want anyone to be offended by what I'm about to say, but my mom always told me not to get involved w/ a Jewish man (she never said married, b/c thats just common sense) b/c they will only marry Jewish women b/c that's what their mothers want them to do. She continued by saying Jewish men have their sexual liasons w/ Christian women b/c they don't respect them.
Now, I've never been shown an ounce of disrespect by MM, but I've stepped back a few times and looked at the big picture, it IS total and utter disrepect...to me (for not sparing my feelings when he WILL someday be all done w/ me), to his wife for obvious reasons, and to his children. I'm not trying to preach, as I am still involved w/ him, but I still feel contempt toward him for all this.
But in the longrun, I will heed my mother's warnign about this guy...I know he won't leave his wife, a) she's loyal b) she's the mother of his children, and a good one at that and c) there's nothing wrong in the marriage, its just like any other 10-yr old marriage, and he can tell me till he's blue in the face that he loves me, but I know better......
As for the Jewish thing, I think your mom isi a bit short-sighted. Being JEWISH is not the problem, being MARRIED is. HELLO?????