Do We Ooze Sexuality?

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Registered: 09-18-2003
Do We Ooze Sexuality?
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Wed, 11-19-2003 - 11:05pm
I'm wondering how many of you feel that because of your EMA you seem to be more sexual....sexual in the way you hold yourself, the way you walk,talk,and just be. THings I have noticed the past couple of months that have happened to me, make me wonder if others have had these things happen and in the past they never did. (Hope that makes some sense, LOL)

Example #1-

I drove to meet my MM in a different town one afternoon. On my way I stopped at a store to pick up some beers . He was getting off work and I was early so I stopped to kill time. Anyway, I come out of the store and to my car. I put the beers in the back and climb in the car. I notice this young man looking at me - kinda like he thought he new me.... I thought nothing of it. I get in the car, and check my cell phone, as I'm doing this I notice he is walking over to my car. I roll down the window and he says, "Hi, I am so and so and I just have to come compliment you on your looks!" I was floored. He then says, I mean no disrepect but I had to come and tell you your beautiful ! WHAT? OMG- this has never happened to me ever ! He then asks me if I am from there....I say no. He asks me if I would like to go have a cup of coffee with him ...I tell him that I'm running late for an appointment, He then asks for my phone number ! How werid. I smiled, said thank-you and tell him he just made my day ! It was a werid and odd experience.... then.... fast forward to today......

example #2-

i am driving into town to pick up my kids from school, a truck drive pulls along side of me, traffic is slow but crawling along the highway. He puts his hand out the window and waves at me. Honks his horn a bit and I look up- couldn't see him that well but smiled. He then slows down because traffic in his lane slows, he is looking at me (I'm looking in my review mirror) he waves at me again. I smiled and stuck my hand out the sunroof and waved. I then pulled into the turning lane and he went straight. He waved again! I waved.

Is this werid or what? I've been married for almost 14 years now and have never had men notice, flirt , or pick up on me before...what gives? I am beginning to think that because of my EMA I am just more sexual and I am showing that I guess. Strange.....or not? Anyone else notice this happening?

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Registered: 10-24-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 11:22am
I have noticed this too. At first I thought I was simply noticing the attention from other men, but it has increased. I have come to the conclusion it's a happiness and confidence we have about us now. A sensual aura. What can be more sexy to someone of the opposite sex then someone who is happy and confident.

This past week, I was in a video store with my DD renting a video. There was a guy about 20 next to me who kept looking over at me. Once I caught his eye and smiley slighty. When he was leaving, he turned and said you really beautiful hair, looked at my DD and said, "Bet you will be as beautiful as your mother when you grow up." He smiled and walked away.

Now I'm old enough to be his mother, but he clearly saw something. DD stood there in shock and said, "Geez Mom, that guy hit on you!" yep he did, and it was great!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 12:25pm
OH Most Certainly! I'm in my mid forties and I have had men the age of my sons come on to me. One of my son's friend called me a MILTF. There has been several incidents but one in particular sticks out in my mind. One day, I was on the way to see MM and this Ferrari pulls up beside me. This drop dead gorgeous guy says to me "Where are you going"? I ignore him in the beginning, and then as I'm driving down the coast road he is right beside me. We spoek off and on but then I had to make my turn to see MM. It's a great ego boost, isn't it! So yes, we do ooze of sexuality:)LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT!!!!!
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 1:05pm

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