Do you and MM ever go out?

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Do you and MM ever go out?
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Sat, 02-21-2004 - 11:20am
I was just on the phone w/MM - he and I are planning to hopefully see each other later today/tonight. W is away for the weekend! :) I asked him if he wanted to grab a bite to eat..we live about 45 minutes away from each other. So, I was thinking we could meet half-way to be safe. He's a little concerned we'll run into someone we know. We usually never go anywhere, just meet for a little fun...

Just wondering what you do with your MM??

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Registered: 04-03-2003
Sat, 02-21-2004 - 1:12pm
We go all over (but his W knows about the A). However he is still paranoid about "relatives" and other people seeing us, what they'd think, what he'd say, which i understand (um, this is my girlfriend, but it's okay, my wife knows LOL). We saw the lady that does his hair in chuck e cheese LOL and we saw his kids old teachers once, but that's it. The teachers were looking me quite sideways (as my four year old DD was there too), but no one that's "in" his life. Fact is, if you're gonna go out, there's no getting around it, you may run into someone. But don't worry too much about it. Let it add to the excitement, and just go someplace probably no one else would be!

And have FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!! i LOVE going out in public with him it's *so* naughty HEHE!!

jen

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Sat, 02-21-2004 - 2:31pm
we go to lunch all the time - but we work together so it's not so strange.

we've been to the mall together, but we just keep it cool and if we were to run in to anyone then the story was that we bumped in to each other and he asked me to help him find something for his g/f for her bday or something...no holding hands or anything.

we also went to a sporting event together and I was a little worried, but we never saw anyone we knew.

we might go to a movie tomorrow - but hey, it's dark in there!!! LOL

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Sat, 02-21-2004 - 3:58pm
We've gone out to eat a few times. Once we almost got busted because a woman I know well from my church came in there as we were leaving, so he just kept walking to the bathroom while I walked out.

We go to my WalMart some. Not a lot, but they are used to seeing us together. And yes, some of those people there see me at other times with my kids. A few of them are still there from when I worked there many years ago. It's a little dicey, I'll admit, but we always figure we'll do that same fallback, "Oh hi, Susan, this is a coworker of mine. I'm helping him find X for his girlfriend."

We don't hold hands or anything, either. He's nervous just hugging and kissing me goodbye in my doorway!!!!

Lucky

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Registered: 02-18-2004
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 12:43pm
My MM and I usually go out to eat in a town about 30 minutes away. We don't worry too much about running into people there. Plus, the car ride gives us time to relax and really focus on each other.

I also run up to his work and see him on Saturdays. I guess his wife doesn't get up there much, because he takes me around with him. Everyone knows we are seeing each other there. It freaked me out a bit at first when he introduced me around, and walked me to my car. Now, he'll even kiss me goodbye in his office.

It does suck not being able to go out with him all the time, but he does make up for it. :-)

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Registered: 10-13-2003
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 1:18pm
We haven't gone out.