Do you discuss M problems with your AP?
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| Thu, 02-18-2010 - 3:03am |
When my AP first told me he loved me, I asked how this could be true: he has a beautiful W and 3 wonderful boys. I said that I cannot compete with his W. I know her is a very kind and sweet person – she gave up her career to take care of their children. He is a good husband and father – a role model – in fact, my H asked him to the godfather of my son. He said that he loves me at a higher level (whatever that meant at that time). Since then, I did not bring up any discussion about his W.
Almost 4 months has passed and now he says he loves me and ONLY me...
Correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe we either consciously or unconsciously set out looking for or wait for someone else because of our dissatisfaction/unhappiness in our M.
I know a lot of you discuss what’s wrong in your M with your AP or they've opened up to you about theirs. I still cannot bring myself to ask him.
Edited 2/18/2010 3:16 am ET by apofap
Edited 2/18/2010 3:23 am ET by apofap

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