Do you ever doubt them?
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Do you ever doubt them?
| Thu, 03-26-2009 - 8:43pm |
Does anyone ever worry that their MM might not be telling you the truth when they say that they never (or rarely) have sex with their W?

Yes, to a point.
My XAP always told me that he and his wife never have sex, after meeting his wife, I believe him. Just a feeling I get.
Katie--
Mama to Alyse (5-12-05) and soon-to-be baby (e.d.d. 10-25-10)
Think no matter what there will always be a litttle doubt - just the nature of being in an A. I'm sure it works both ways that they doubt us a little as well.
Try not to dwell on it b/c it would just make me crazy and I would rather enjoy the times we get to talk as well as spend together then worry about something I can't control.
I think most of the AP I've had have mainly said to me what they thought I wanted to hear, rather than the truth. Because their goal is mainly to keep getting me into bed. Not that that's a big effort, LOL. But if you're cheating, dishonesty is pretty much ingrained in it, it seems to me.
-jana
There are times I doubt some of the things he tells me..I don't doubt how much they have sex...I don't doubt what he tells me about his life..What I do doubt is that he is happy with having just me as his AP...That I am enough...
He has talked about other women and just yesterday told me that his friend is 'hooking' him up to meet a friend of his to 'see how things go between them'.