Do you ever feel bad his/her partner?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
Do you ever feel bad his/her partner?
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Sun, 10-31-2010 - 10:30am

So this morning pictures popped up in FB of AP and his W dressed up for Halloween.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 11:12am

(((hugs))) mrm..I can totally feel your pain hence my earlier post.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 12:06pm

My AP is S and I am married ,so , cant say anything about his partner. But I guess if my AP was M, I wouldnt feel bad for her.The reason being that she is not providing her H what she needs to and has to look outside to provide himself with that.When he doesnt feel bad, then why should I ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 12:34pm
No. I have never met AP's wife and I don't want to or plan to. I suppose that if I did actually know her it might make a difference and I probably would feel guilty. Right now she is a stranger and I feel no obligation towards her.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 1:23pm

Pretty much this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 2:21pm

If I knew her, I might feel bad, but I don't know her, so really, I don't even give her a second thought.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 3:21pm

The thing is he claims everything is great and that they have a happy marriage ... so i have no reason to think ill of her at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 4:06pm

It just happens sometimes, mrm: people can be in love with more than one person.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 6:20pm

I'm SW with a MM.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Sun, 10-31-2010 - 10:54pm

I do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 9:20am

I don't feel bad about his W. I'm afraid I don't have a lot of respect for their M, period. It is unfathomable to me how she can have turned a blind eye to his shenanigans over all these years. I'm sure it's a combination of things that keeps her in it, and I sure wish I knew what those reasons could be!

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