Do you ever tell your friend

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Registered: 07-07-2003
Do you ever tell your friend
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Mon, 03-02-2009 - 10:22pm

Hello, I was wondering for a few days now while i have been reading these boards if any of you told you new friend that you have feelings or in love with them or miss them if you have not seen them in a while ?


I have a married friend ( not physical ) that it seems like when i am not around him for a few days i am always thinking about him and i miss him dearly.I can't wait till the next time i see him.I know he feels the same way i do because of the way he acts.


What would you call this ? Is it infatuation or A emotional affair ? He does tell me problems that he has with his wife and children even in the sex department.I can tell by the tone of his voice he is not happy ay all in his marriage.


Please give me some advise. Maybe i am reading too much into this. I really dont know what to do.


Thanks


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Registered: 08-19-2008
Wed, 03-04-2009 - 1:09pm

Your standing on the edge of a very slippery slope to an A. You didn't say if you're M as well. If you both are or even if just one of you is M, I suggest you stop this foolishness now. It goes nowhere and has the potential to cause a lot of pain to yourselves and other people.

There is nothing special about it and if he doesn't bring it up you leave it alone. Maybe a good time to resolve to just be friends. Don't ruin a good friendship by sleeping with him.

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