Do you feel guilty about the BS?

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Registered: 07-24-2009
Do you feel guilty about the BS?
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Sat, 07-31-2010 - 1:40am

Just a question I was pondering today - do you all feel guilty about the potential pain you could cause your AP's spouse?

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 2:53pm
I had this debate recently with my Mom, who is relatively religious.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 2:57pm
ITA, justlivin.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 8:35pm

Hi All ~


I came into my A knowing that my AP was M; I'm the single one. Do I feel guilty? not so much... I thought about this recently and wondered why I didn't feel guilty. Should I feel guilty is another question, but again I have to say not so much. I know he made those vows to her. He's made

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Registered: 06-02-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 3:34am
I agree a sin is a sin , but the type of sin matters too . The consequences of lust/infidelity on the other BS is way more devastating than the consequences of just lying for small things , being lazy or being glutton. It has nothing to do with god or religion , its just the way your actions affects others that should measured .

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