do you feel you are obsessed with A?

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Registered: 04-21-2009
do you feel you are obsessed with A?
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Wed, 04-22-2009 - 8:31am
In my last A, I thought about him almost every minute of every day. I was obsessed. Not calling him much or showing how much I thought of him but it certainly CONSUMED me 24/7. Now I am finding myself thinking of this new man (although we have only kissed)all the time. I don't know if it is because I am bored or what but many have compared an A to an addiction and I really believe it. We do get "highs" from this. Anyone else feel this way? I always thought I was the odd one feeling like this.
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Registered: 04-21-2009
Wed, 04-22-2009 - 8:56am

Hello!
I am new here and cant believe that this board moves so fast that i cant even see my post,lol! To answer to your question,yes,i am obsessed with my A.so much so that i sometimes muddle up the work i am doing.It takes seconds for me to switch to dreamland with just my AP( that is my other man,i am learning the lingo!)and I.weekends hurt like hell as on those days we dont have any kind of contact for fear of being caught,you know.

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Wed, 04-22-2009 - 1:58pm

Yes, it's the lovely chemicals in our bodies that make us obsess over APs :-) (see the Resource section on this board for more details!) It's all good until the addiction and he rush become mistaken for love. Tread very carefully, ladies...!

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trixie xo

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