do you help him save his marriage?
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do you help him save his marriage?
| Tue, 08-11-2009 - 1:24am |
So of course my AP and I are "head over heals" in love.
| Tue, 08-11-2009 - 1:24am |
So of course my AP and I are "head over heals" in love.
I believe that any input you give him would not be a good idea. It is his marriage and he needs to work it out with his W. Anything you say in suggestion may backfire and you will look self-serving no matter how good your intentions were. You do have a vested interest in the final outcome, but if he wants to be with you, ultimately things will take their own course and he will be. Whether that is in 5 weeks or 5 months, you MUST let them work it out for themselves. If the time comes and he returns to you, then you know there was nothing for you to feel that can be thrown back at you. If he does not return, you even though you will be devastated, you will have the knowledge that he is where he wants to be and you can get on with your life.
Everything you say is so true!
I think you should help him save his marriage if it's salvagable. My ap spend a great deal of time trying to help
The mere fact that a person is having an affair uncuts any other efforts to improve one's marriage.