Do you hurt more when...

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Registered: 06-13-2006
Do you hurt more when...
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Thu, 03-12-2009 - 11:36am

They tell you they love you?


Was with AP yesterday, while making love he finally said it. I know he loves me, we have talked about our feelings on IM. But yesterday he verbalized it and I cried. We had D-day and he said he couldn't stay in contact with me any longer...that lasted 3 days.


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Registered: 01-29-2009
Thu, 03-12-2009 - 1:44pm
Honey, when
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Registered: 06-13-2006
Fri, 03-13-2009 - 12:08am
I guess I wasn't completely clear in how it came about. It was while we were getting dressed, the deed was done. I know when it comes up during the deed it means nothing. Afterwards? Well it may still mean nothing.
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Registered: 01-29-2009
Fri, 03-13-2009 - 9:00am
In my opinion, yes it hurts more.
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Registered: 06-13-2006
Fri, 03-13-2009 - 9:13am

Well, he had the chance to throw me under the bus and walk away

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Fri, 03-13-2009 - 9:56am

no i didn't hurt more i felt better...actually because it let me know he loves me and i find comfort in that..whether we are together or not....i actually hurt more when he doesn't tell me...but everyone is different ya know....anyway.not all aps will throw you under the bus and some genuinely do love you....why would a grown man tell you he loves you if he really doesn't..that's absurb....get me..? anyhow...i hope you feel better about loving him...loving someone isn't bad..it's a good thing regardless of who thinks it's right or wrong....they can't take that away from you

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss