Do you think he loves me?
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Do you think he loves me?
| Wed, 09-17-2003 - 7:50am |
I have a question for everybody here. I have been seeing my MM for 3 months. And it has been wonderful. He treats me good and all that . Yesterday, he came by my house to see me before he went off to work. I told him that I care for him alot and I think he took it as me saying "I love you" because he told me "I can't say that yet". Do you think he could love me?
His W is a very controlling woman and she had beat him down mentally and emotionally. She's the type who wants to be the ruler of the house and not be equal with him. All this has given him trust issues. Do you think he's being cautious with me?

Sometimes we have to judge the way men feel about us by what they do. If you see him going out of his way to do the things you like, or if he has changed up from hanging with his friends to spending more time with you, these are things that mean he really cares about you. You can even tell how he feels by looking deep in his eyes. The phrase 'the eyes never lie' is true. There is another post about things just feeling different. When this happens, you'll know. You can't really put it into words, but there are some very good attempts on that post. You just know.
Have you known him for only those three months? Three months seems kind of soon, to me, to be saying those words, unless you've known him for a while before you entered into the r. JMHO. After 3 months, I knew I really cared about MM, but love? I think I was almost at two years with MM before I started having those thoughts. Maybe he's just not at the 'love' stage yet. But everyone is different, so who knows.