Do you think I love AP?

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Do you think I love AP?
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Sat, 08-21-2010 - 3:07pm

I was discussing what love is on another post, and it made me realize that I have no idea at all if I love my AP.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 1:18pm

No worries, Lexi :) Thanks for making me think! That's a GOOD thing, and I'm sure it's pretty apparent I've been on a mission of sorts to understand my A...odd thing to me is that instead of all that info causing me to want to run away from it all, I find myself questioning how I can overcome the obstacles and fully integrate something that has become so important to me into my life. Knowing, of course, that we can never "fully" be in each other's lives... but, hey, we can be GREAT APs for each other!


IDK...I feel like the oddball...I'm past the angst (I think mostly b/c I've worked HARD to have reasonable expectations and AP treats me in such a way that i just KNOW our friendship is SOLID...and then there's the undeniable underlying attraction...mental & physical)

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 2:02pm

Great answer lexi, you are a deep thinker :-)


I think I kind of agree with what you've put forth. I can say, without a doubt, that I do love AP. I also feel that it fits in with what you're saying because I truly feel that I am elevating him, and helping him be who I know he can be. He's built up so many walls because of the rejection he's felt from his W....no man should have to live like that. I don't think he's truly been loved by a woman, until me. I also feel that I'm not detracting anything from his children as

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 6:24pm

There is a lot of interesting stuff here to consider.

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Registered: 06-02-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 7:05am

hey lexi , you sound like a

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