Do you think your MM is your soulmate?
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Do you think your MM is your soulmate?
| Thu, 01-08-2004 - 11:48am |
I have seen so many women on here post that their MM is their “soulmate.” Now I am not trying to offend anyone, but that sentiment always sounded so ridiculous to me when mentioned within the context of an A. I am not saying I don’t believe in the idea of a soulmate -- not saying I do either (I do think I lean toward the latter), but I always wondered how someone could consider someone their soulmate when they are involved in such a constrained relationship. I mean COME ON, how can you know someone is your soulmate if you do not know “all” of him or her? I personally think many people are caught up in a delusion.
Any thoughts?
Am I cynical today, or what?!!! What happened to the romantic me?!! See what these As do to people!!!
Charlotte

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I haven't formed any opinion on whether my current guy is a soulmate for exactly the reasons you're talking about. That's a question I wont be able to answer until his GF is completely out of the picture. Do know soemthing like that I have to be able to love a person completely and I can't do that when I know he's telling someone else he loves them.
Charlotte
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i do believe in people you connect with on a deeper level and hopefully fall in love with, male and female. i have two great girlfriends that i love and would do anything for! AND of course, i have two men i love and would do anything for! but soulmates, no, i don't believe they exist.
and as you can tell, i'm a cynic!
but charlotte, you are falling in love and fighting it all the way..... a little scared are we??
gurl
however, i also *realize* that i may not end up with him.
i feel confident i will find happiness and contentment in another relationship if and when that time comes. This will not change what me and MM had/have.
My dawsons creek quote sticks with me... "if someone is your true love they will find a way to be with you".
So, maybe i am wrong LOL.
who knows.
But i have the deepest connection i have ever had with a man w/ MM.
So there you go!
Jen
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