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Do you trust your AP that
| Tue, 06-01-2010 - 9:56am |
Do you trust your AP that if you were discovered by error or fall pregnant, he will stand by you? Or will he throw you under the bus , so to say?
My A is one year old and havent had any discoveries or even suspicion on my H's part even though we are neighbors.I have a feeling that my AP will stand by me but then who knows? he might be the first one to run away and deny ? Who knows he might just say that I was throwing myself on him ,ugh! So far,he is a gentleman and I go along with the love in our A.
How much trust/faith do you have in your AP regarding this? Have you had any chance to see it?

I have total and complete trust that my AP would stand by me if we were discovered. He has been the one wanting us to "be together" in real life and to have a child together.
Sunshine
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I don't think there is a circumstance under which AP would leave his marriage for me, including pregnancy or discovery.
anotherseyes
Wow good question
Hmmm pregnancy? He would stand by me and the child but would be gutted by this outcome. I am having a hysterectomy in July for an ongoing medical issue so I guess that possibility wont arise after that.
D Day? Again he'd be devestated (as would I) because we both have families, children,
I guess it is a tough question to answer ! There should be a test to test the trust we keep in our APs or are A's based on mistrust itself! catch 22 !!
janamich67, I am sorry that your AP did that to you.You are not a cheater.. you are a person who fell in love outside marriage and unfortunately the guy was not worth risking your M for.No matter what,I surely believe it hurts.( hugs )