Do you wear your wedding ring?
Find a Conversation
Do you wear your wedding ring?
| Thu, 05-06-2004 - 6:16pm |
When you are with your OM/MM, do you take off your ring? Does he take off his?
I have been taking mine off just because I do not like to see it flashing in my face especially during those intimate moments. Also, I simply want to focus on my OM and do not want either of us to have a reminder of reality.
How do you handle it?

Pages
Hi tropics,
I have my engagement ring, wedding ring and eternity ring... all three are always on my finger when I'm with MM... just as his wedding ring never comes off his.
We know we are both married... and to be honest taking off the rings isn't going to change that... that's how I feel anyway... and believe it or not... more often than not... I barely notice MM's wedding ring... I know it's gold... but I've never really looked at it.
We've talked about it... and he's told me he will not take it off... while he is married, there it remains... and I'm respectful of that... he knows mine are there and would never ask me to take them off.
I guess it's all about the acceptance of your relationship and what you want out of it... MM and I accept what we have and are not looking for an out of our marriages... so the rings... are all part and parcel of that.
luv and hugs
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My Affair Support
Email me
"Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly"
"Happiness is like a butterfly, if pursued it is always out of our reach. However if we sit quietly, it comes and rests gently on our shoulder"
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
MM does not wear a ring since we have been in our EMA
I would worry I would lose my rings if I ever removed them - or forget to put them back on....
Kikki -
Have a good Friday everyone!
Mitzy
Soleil
Pages