Do You Wear Your Wedding Ring?

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Do You Wear Your Wedding Ring?
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Sun, 06-13-2010 - 4:29pm
Just curious about how many of us still wear our wedding rings even though we are involved in an A. I do, but I always have and if I stopped H would ask questions. I do want to take it off though-it almost seems liberating in some way to take it off. What do you do?

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 12:46pm
Yeah, all my friends and family (female) wear their wedding rings--I'm actually the only one who doesn't.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-19-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 2:41pm

I've always worn my wedding ring even though the M itself is over.My H has never taken it out.My AP is divorced and took off his wedding ring after that but for the last 1 month he is wearing a new ring *rolling my eyes* and am waiting for him to tell me why as I cant control myself any longer to ask !!!

All my female friends have rings on and I guess it might be generation thing??

Any clue why does a SM begin wearing a ring on that finger???

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Registered: 12-03-2009
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 2:54pm

My wedding ring is yellow gold. i switched to silver/white gold years ago and only very occasionally wear my wedding ring.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 4:32pm

LOL hmm - took a post that made me smile a little about the 'old days' to bring me out of lurking I guess. ;)


When BF was still AP - and we were still long distance - every time I'd come to town and he and I would meet up - he would take his ring off.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 8:54pm

i have the swelling of the finger issue as well.. so i wear my band whenever my fingers feel OK.. W doesn't mind either way.. she wears hers on occasion, usually when we are going out and she needs to look formal.. we actually tease each other about this ( i know, bad bad bad!)..


AP wears a few rings, none that's a band.. but when we are together, we are a couple whether we have rings or not.. i'd brought it up way back when and she made it clear she doesn't care one way or the other.. she has pretty cool rings though..

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 10:08pm
I only wore my wedding band for 3 weeks into the affair... because that is when my marriage ended.

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