Do you/AP feel insecure?

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Do you/AP feel insecure?
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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 9:34am

AP and i both feel insecure , at times.

My insecurity arises from his STBX though being 6 years older than me,she is gorgeous,slim and all! I would be in the fat category,like the majority of the americans( lol!) .The holidays were huge for me as i really dreaded that AP and his STBX W would come close together ( but they decided on D).those few days really took a toll on me.

My AP also has some inseurities .He believes that i wouldnt wait for him till his D is final.His D could linger on for a while as his kids are young and there would be a nice custoday battle.His STBX W works a full day but earns minimal to provide for 2 kids especially in this economy.When he brings this topic in, i again get insecure,sigh.What if he gives up and ends up staying M??

Anyone else having insecurities? Or anyone who feels secure in there R with AP?It would be nice to hear some encouraging stories.

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Registered: 09-01-2008
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 7:12pm

(((Tyger)))...


I am so sorry for your pain.

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Registered: 12-20-2007
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 9:37pm
I am the insecure one in my relationship with my AP.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 12:10am

Hi lovingdoll,


I think it is natural for people in our situation to feel a litttle insecure.

 
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 8:42am

thank you so much TGR OBX and BRILLIANT, for your kind words and very good advice, there's more to it..his sister and mom know about me and I have met and hung out with the sister twice with him.

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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