does absense make the heart grow fonder?

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Registered: 06-08-2007
does absense make the heart grow fonder?
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 10:51am
at point in my affair AP and i could see each other 3 days a week, and talk on the phone 4 days a week. things changed, and we couldn't see or talk to one another as much. we stopped contact for almost 3 weeks. he got in touch with me. before he would never really work to hard for us. now since things changed and we both have to work for us, he never lets an email go unanswered, he never ignores me, and when he says he'll be on messanger, he's there. last week, for him messanger wasn't enough, he surprised me by coming by in person and we went out to lunch. next week we are seeing each other again and going out to lunch. it seems like our relationship is stronger and more passionate. we really want to be with one another. it's not about sex, understanding one another. we haven't been intimate in almost 2 months,

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Registered: 10-10-2006
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 12:27pm
really all it does is make the MIND go crazy....LOL
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Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 1:56pm

Hey OL -


This is pretty unusual for you and AP - you guys are usually on the same page.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 10-10-2006
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 2:01pm
Hey-- no problem. Thanks for asking. No, this is extremely unusual for us. That's why it is so concerning.We've had differences that were serious enough for us to consider ending it and now he doesn't even remember what those were about, and even then, he didn't contact me for a week at the most. And that happened only twice in the 6 years.
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Registered: 10-10-2006
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 2:01pm
Sorry! Didn't mean to hijack the thread. Maybe I should start one .
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 5:32pm

my momma used to say after a while, "absence can make the heart go yonder"


but seriously i believe what is meant to be will eventually be..if someone loves you, you have to let them go if that's what they desire at the time, if it is truly yours it will come back to you and nothing will be able to ever get in the way of that.

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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