Does anyone else feel this way?
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Does anyone else feel this way?
| Mon, 11-03-2003 - 12:32pm |
I rarely call MM because he's very busy at work, and I'm usually pretty busy during the day as well. He usually calls me everyother day on his way home from work. I'm not comfortable in emailing since it leaves a trace. And we meet for lunch or dinner every week. Right now, I'm content with this level of communication. However, after reading some of the posts, it seems many of the ladies here talk with their OM/MM daily and for long periods of time.
Are there others here who have the same level of communication as I do, and are you comfortable with it? I'm wondering once this progresses to the next level, that I will want more communication. I'm rambling.........thanks for any input!

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We see each other a once or twice a month, and phone or email about every other day. It works for me -- but I do miss him sometimes. That's the way it is!!
Good luck to you,
Charlotte
I read " how Often" and felt a little left out...but after thinking about it,
we've been at this for five years and in the beginning it was more frequent,
we'd see each other every friday night for a long evening and we went out to dinner
back then too, after both his W and I both had second babies, that changed a lot,
because it was hard for either of us to get away. Lately he is having long periods of
wahtever he goes through more often than usual, I give it a few weeks and eventually do end up calling him.... I used to leave him message after message everyday...until he called telling me what a nut I am.... playfully and we'd end up back to laughing and teasing in a matter of minutes like nothing ever happened, for a while there we were
seeing each other every Saturday morning now when Sat mornings come I end up waking up looking at my clock every two hours and I feel very lonely when morning comes and I am still alone. Lately there is no pattern to any of it, but he always comes around.
I told him, if you don't want to see me anymore just be a man and tell me.... he's said,
If I didn't want to be with you I would tell you than not call you... So I was like kinda like the last 4 weeks....??? Anyway... he thanked me for not leaving him panicy messages.
Sorry for the long answer... just nice to share it with someone who understands the madness!!!
It never ceases to amaze me that people can actually carry these As on for years and years. I'm not sure if I could handle it for that long. It's also disheartening to think that the ups and downs could remain so intense for so long; I would have thought that after a certain amount of time the rollercoaster would slow down a bit.
It does sound like he cares, by the way.
Hang in there,
Charlotte
Hi life,
I'm guessing that my communication with MM is on a par with what you have... once upon a time we used to chat at least 3 times a week while he was driving home from work... nowadays however... he catches the train to work and only drive in once a week... this day we usually always try to talk... and get about an hours worth or chat in.
The rest of the time... it's email for us... we both use a hotmail account... our email is quite regular... at least once a day... sometimes up to four or five each way... just depending on how busy he is at work... I'm a SAHM, so for me... it's a little easier... although there are certainly times I am flat out.
Sweet
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